What causes domestic violence in 2020

[billy the kid]

Im not married boofhead….tell me about how the military is devoid of wifebashers….

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[brian ross]

Im not married boofhead….tell me about how the military is devoid of wifebashers….

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I never claimed there was no domestic violence in the defence force community, Billy.

So you're not married. I assume you are widower or divorced? Afterall you have proclaimed you have kids.

[billy the kid]

You implied that by joining the Armed Forces that this would provide the outlet to which both you and Non De Plume referred.
You stated…."All to a lesser or greater extent provide an outlet to channel (and control) your aggressive tendency, Nom. However, most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that sort of commitment..."
You state that to join the Army is to channel and control aggressive tendencies...therefore it follows that your implication
is that to join the Army you cease to be a wifebasher…
You state that most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that commitment.
You sing the praises of the Army as an answer to domestic violence as it provides an outlet to control aggressive
tendencies which is total bullshit.
You continue to make sweeping ludicrous statements as though you know everything about everything, whereas
in reality you know sweet fuck all.
The Military is full of wifebashers...do some googling boofhead...

[The Reboot]

So you're not married. I assume you are widower or divorced? Afterall you have proclaimed you have kids.

Why don't you mind your own business? This has nothing to do with the discussion.

[The Reboot]

You implied that by joining the Armed Forces that this would provide the outlet to which both you and Non De Plume referred.
You stated…."All to a lesser or greater extent provide an outlet to channel (and control) your aggressive tendency, Nom. However, most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that sort of commitment..."
You state that to join the Army is to channel and control aggressive tendencies...therefore it follows that your implication
is that to join the Army you cease to be a wifebasher…
You state that most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that commitment.
You sing the praises of the Army as an answer to domestic violence as it provides an outlet to control aggressive
tendencies which is total bullshit.
You continue to make sweeping ludicrous statements as though you know everything about everything, whereas
in reality you know sweet fuck all.
The Military is full of wifebashers...do some googling boofhead...

This is also a good point. I theorized that some of the problem could be the state of a lazy, modern society. But then I recall conquerers like say, Mohammed had plenty to do in the way of conquering other nations and that did not stop him from being a rapist, murderer and a paedophile.

[Nom De Plume]

You implied that by joining the Armed Forces that this would provide the outlet to which both you and Non De Plume referred.
You stated…."All to a lesser or greater extent provide an outlet to channel (and control) your aggressive tendency, Nom. However, most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that sort of commitment..."
You state that to join the Army is to channel and control aggressive tendencies...therefore it follows that your implication
is that to join the Army you cease to be a wifebasher…
You state that most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that commitment.
You sing the praises of the Army as an answer to domestic violence as it provides an outlet to control aggressive
tendencies which is total bullshit.
You continue to make sweeping ludicrous statements as though you know everything about everything, whereas
in reality you know sweet fuck all.
The Military is full of wifebashers...do some googling boofhead...

Well done!
You have successfully established that the culture of the armed services is violent. Dare I say that the training has a lot to do with it!

Boredom is one reason. Jealously is another.
Needing an outlet, that is seemingly absent to them, is the key to understanding this issue.

Lets assume that all humans need an outlet, or even a number of outlets as a part of the self-actualization process.
The questions then become: What are the qualities of a positive outlet? Do outlets, with such qualities exist? If, yes, why is society not accessing them consistently?

Then, overlaying this, as you have alluded, Reboot, are the teething issues of a newly emerging globalized world, tethered economically and technologically, but not yet culturally bound.

All we have done is confirm that organizations designed for killing, are not examples of a positive outlet as a part of the self-actualization process.
I would have thought that to be pretty obvious... Wouldn't you agree Brian?

[billy the kid]

If the Army wanted you to have a wife...they would have issued you with one....
Now where did I hear that......

[billy the kid]

Maslows Pyramid of Needs should be compulsory study in all Australian schools.
It would be a start for children to learn wtf life is all about...…...

[cods]

My feeling is that the human race is degenerating and decaying year by year.
When I walk through the mall and I see men/women with tattoos all over their bodies...
..when I see men/women with metallic body piercings in their noses, their chins, their
ears, their eyebrows...when I see ludicrous haircuts and behaviour patterns in public..
...when I see parents in public totally unable to control young children....
….when I hear the vile language that people use in public to one another, I can only ask...
…..how can people respect each other when you look and sound like that....
Some women dress like sluts and then complain when someone looks at them...
Some women will drink their male companions under the table and then go and
take a slash in public out in the street....and complain when they are arrested.
Some men will viciously assault their partners just because they can..and then
blame some obscure reason for doing so.....
People have no respect for one another....
I don't have to wonder why 80% of Police callouts these days are domestic violence
issues....
People cant live with one another...
And unfortunately, a large percentage of the young people of today are sadly
attempting to struggle through life with no brains and no guidance....as their
parents have no brains...….
And they then live together, have kids...and the cycle continues...….
Im 72...Ive lived in Sydney, Brisbane, Canberra, the Gold Coast, The Central Coast...
and Ive seen it all....and its getting worse.....
People need re-educating....but it wont happen.....
Some children do as they please... some adults do as they please....
We can blame the stress of modern day life and an inability to cope all we like...
I am tending to think it just comes down to a lack of brains.....

thats for sure it is I cannot recall ever hearing of a father or any parent killing their whole family when I was bringing up my kids....we had it tougher and went without far more than anyone today.. yet we are now producing one of the worst groups ever imo.....now not only do they want to kill they want to be cruel with it....its monstrous........I firmly believe its because there are almost no consequences right from little.....parents are not allowed to smack their child anymore.....like it or not a smack is a consequence of doing something not acceptable....if a child gets disciplined at school...up go the parents and confront the teacher.....a child gets suspended....they dont go to detention they stay home and play games....
steal cars or threaten an elderly person.... and the court falls over itself to give them more and more chances cant do a thing until he/she reaches 18....in the mean time it becomes a way of life for some youth...


its time to stop all this pretending if we dont do anything it will all go away by itself.....

the hell it will!

[brian ross]

You implied that by joining the Armed Forces that this would provide the outlet to which both you and Non De Plume referred.
You stated…."All to a lesser or greater extent provide an outlet to channel (and control) your aggressive tendency, Nom. However, most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that sort of commitment..."
You state that to join the Army is to channel and control aggressive tendencies...therefore it follows that your implication
is that to join the Army you cease to be a wifebasher…
You state that most Australians are lazy and don't want to make that commitment.
You sing the praises of the Army as an answer to domestic violence as it provides an outlet to control aggressive
tendencies which is total bullshit.
You continue to make sweeping ludicrous statements as though you know everything about everything, whereas
in reality you know sweet fuck all.
The Military is full of wifebashers...do some googling boofhead...

Yeah, yeahd, whatever, Billy. You got caught out spreading your usual bullshit, making up lies. Oh, dearie, dearie, me. Tsk, tsk.

I spent 10 years in the Army. I encountered exactly zero wife bashers. The are, I suspect fewer wife bashers in the military community than in civie street.