Weird Coincidences

[BigP]

You never, ever, forget your first love! He won't have forgotten you either!

You talkin love or infatuation Nef ?

FIRST LOVE! My first boyfriend (when I was 18 and so was he). He worked for the ANZ Bank and we "went out" for about 6 months before he got a transfer. Then we wrote to each other, I met his parents and so forth. We remained virgins (no groping even), long distance romances do never last ... eventually, when I was about 22, he turned up to "see me". Next I heard that he was engaged to another girl ... I was NOT upset or even curious ... past is past.

Then about 12 years ago, I rang him. I wanted to know that he was OK. He remembered me and we had a 15 minute chat. He's OK and happy and my mind is better as it wasn't "my fault" (or his) ... things happen.

OK?

1st love, how good is that.

I remember mine, Marie. Lovely girl.

Did you cop a feel ?

[Black Orchid]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

[Valkie]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

Love is neither
Love is wanting to give more than you receive.
As a result love is more intimate, more intense, more empowering, more satisfying.
Love is lust and sex in hyperactive.

When you make love with someone you truly love
Tgere is nothing to compare it with.
It's just .......perfect.

[cods]

I will leave all the sex and love bits to you guys... it was a no no in my day...and still is..

but I will tell you this not romantic just weird..

I received a letter yesterday hand written address on the envelope and address on the back....didnt have a clue who it was from.

kinda hoped I may have won lotto...but ... anyway I eventually opened it and it was from a Jehovah Witness. hand written

she came to see me and I wasnt home blah blah and thought I may be interested in meeting her at the local Kingdom Hall...

I am god smacked to be honest as this is new to me...and so far havent found anyone else who has had Jehovahs now personally writing letters ....

I didnt get the Watch Tower but I did get some words of wisdom....

maybe I look like I have the need..

[Neferti]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

I was once told (by a bloke I wasn't involved with) that "love is LUST sustained".

LOVE is many things ... it doesn't necessarily involve SEX. We LOVE our parents, our children, our friends. IF you combine sex and love with that lot, there is definitely something wrong with YOU!

[Black Orchid]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

Love is neither
Love is wanting to give more than you receive.
As a result love is more intimate, more intense, more empowering, more satisfying.
Love is lust and sex in hyperactive.

When you make love with someone you truly love
Tgere is nothing to compare it with.
It's just .......perfect.

Love is obviously more intense, enduring and on a much deeper level than just sex and/or lust singularly but love also contains both components. If it didn't, people in love would not have sex

No idea what you mean by "love is lust and sex in hyperactive".

[Black Orchid]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

I was once told (by a bloke I wasn't involved with) that "love is LUST sustained".

LOVE is many things ... it doesn't necessarily involve SEX. We LOVE our parents, our children, our friends. IF you combine sex and love with that lot, there is definitely something wrong with YOU!

Not sure about you but when I talk about love and sex in the same sentence I am certainly not thinking about my family

[Neferti]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

I was once told (by a bloke I wasn't involved with) that "love is LUST sustained".

LOVE is many things ... it doesn't necessarily involve SEX. We LOVE our parents, our children, our friends. IF you combine sex and love with that lot, there is definitely something wrong with YOU!

Not sure about you but when I talk about love and sex in the same sentence I am certainly not thinking about my family :

Isn't that exactly what I said? We LOVE our family and friends but sex does NOT come into it ... geeze!

[Black Orchid]

Yes but this isn't about love in general.

I had plenty of boyfriends before and after the one in the OP but I didn't love them. I remember them all but your first true love stands out and is very different.

[Valkie]

You are confusing sex with love. Sex is LUST.

Love is sex AND lust

Love is neither
Love is wanting to give more than you receive.
As a result love is more intimate, more intense, more empowering, more satisfying.
Love is lust and sex in hyperactive.

When you make love with someone you truly love
Tgere is nothing to compare it with.
It's just .......perfect.

Love is obviously more intense, enduring and on a much deeper level than just sex and/or lust singularly but love also contains both components. If it didn't, people in love would not have sex

No idea what you mean by "love is lust and sex in hyperactive".

It's too hard to describe
But it's amazing.
You love the person you are with, they love you
You strive to be everything to them, they in turn strive to be everything to you.
Your heart is bursting with them, everything about them, your mind is all about them.
At the same time you feel intense love and companionship, you feel like you could die and not care.
The sex is only a part of the experience, true love making can go on for hours, just kissing fondling, holding feeling, being.

When first married, you rush, you don't take the time to enjoy, concentrating on the one ending.
As your relationship evolves, the rush, the hurry, the need relaxes.
Just being with your love is part of the experience, you flirt, touch, look and build the love making.
When you love, nothing is hurried, and as you get older, you enjoy it more.

I feel sorry for people who see only sex
Who go through the sexual act like a machine, simply working at reaching the end.

40 years, I have been married.
And I hope for 40 more.
Love makes you young.