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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by JW Frogen » Fri Mar 06, 2009 5:59 pm

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by boxy » Fri Mar 06, 2009 9:28 pm

Of course men can be friends with women. The alternate is that men can't even be friends with each other, because they will always see each other as rivals for the attentions of the nearest female.

Sex is a big part of life, but it's not everything.
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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by JW Frogen » Fri Mar 06, 2009 10:21 pm

boxy wrote:. The alternate is that men can't even be friends with each other, because they will always see each other as rivals for the attentions of the nearest female.
Good point, I have never been able to be freinds with any man with an attractive partner or wife.

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by Auzgurl » Fri Mar 06, 2009 11:29 pm

boxy wrote:Of course men can be friends with women. The alternate is that men can't even be friends with each other, because they will always see each other as rivals for the attentions of the nearest female.

Sex is a big part of life, but it's not everything.
Women have the same problem boxy... the rival thing can be vicious.

They say sex is 10% of a relationship, but if not working it can be 90%..its true. If its not working in the boudiour game over..more or less.

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by JW Frogen » Sat Mar 07, 2009 12:04 am

Auzgurl wrote:
boxy wrote:Of course men can be friends with women. The alternate is that men can't even be friends with each other, because they will always see each other as rivals for the attentions of the nearest female.

Sex is a big part of life, but it's not everything.
Women have the same problem boxy... the rival thing can be vicious.

They say sex is 10% of a relationship, but if not working it can be 90%..its true. If its not working in the boudiour game over..more or less.

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by boxy » Sat Mar 07, 2009 12:48 am

Psst, Frogen, your characiture is showing.
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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by JW Frogen » Sat Mar 07, 2009 12:49 am

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by boxy » Sat Mar 07, 2009 1:09 am

Auzgurl wrote:
boxy wrote:Of course men can be friends with women. The alternate is that men can't even be friends with each other, because they will always see each other as rivals for the attentions of the nearest female.

Sex is a big part of life, but it's not everything.
Women have the same problem boxy... the rival thing can be vicious.
Friendship is basically a social contract, friends informally agree to set aside part of their personal interests for mutual benefit. Their sexual attraction is just part of what they can set aside in return for "friendship".
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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by AiA in Atlanta » Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:00 am

AiA mentally reviewing list of female friends .... conclusion: most of these "friends" are women I have never slept with and probably never will sleep with but there is most definitely a sexual undercurrent in these relationships. In other words, these are women I could sleep with sober. Except that one fat Pakistani woman with the mustache I know. Incredible human but I only like mustaches on Frogen.

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Re: Can males and females just be friends

Post by Auzgurl » Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:48 am

Boxy writes:
Friendship is basically a social contract, friends informally agree to set aside part of their personal interests for mutual benefit. Their sexual attraction is just part of what they can set aside in return for "friendship
Yes you could be right boxy..

Love and friendship are very much part each other. I mean you cant really love someone you dont like anyway.

Lust is something else, but in some cases love/lust coexist?

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