Help for men in crisis

[BigP]

So you can all get fucked....

[Black Orchid]

So you can all get fucked....

How about a hug instead?

[BigP]

So you can all get fucked....

How about a hug instead?

That would be nice,,, My life is a little complicated at the moment, Not bad , Just a lot of things happening, Im in my new dweling, no insulation so a little cool witrh the sutherly that is blowing at the moment, work was great a couple of months back, but has turned to shit,, Not for me , but a couple of guys I have worked with for around 15 years are going to loose their jobs,And one I first worked with in the mid 80's

[Black Orchid]

I have been feeling a little down and out myself for the past few days and that's unusual for me. Maybe it's the planetary lineup at present

Sorry about your work mates. It's a bad time to lose your job leading up to Christmas which is only about 9 weeks away and that is enough to depress anyone all by itself.

Maybe we should hold a pity party *hic*

[cods]

I have 5 grandsons I tell everyone of them whenever I see them how important they are to me how much i love and care about them
when they do something extra special I go on about it much to their embarrassment....

but to my mind we concentrate on negatives today.....highlight the bad!! very rarely the positive and god.

havent you noticed how we talk about the govt especially if its not our chosen one... .hummmmmm..

boys I feel even need more atten tion[ to their good points] when it comes to puberty, they can and do shut themselves off in the hope
no one can see them....lets try and see the good instead of the negative.....and that goes for everyone....

its so easy to talk everyone down today.... whinge whinge..

[cods]

I will bring the Bon Bons black orchid....

and read everyones tea leaves...I used to be good at that when we had tea with leaves in it..

[Black Orchid]

Boys definitely do need more attention and positive reinforcement and maybe we sometimes forget that in our every day battles to just live and get on with things.

[cods]

our priorities are all wrong today.... that goes for every walk in life..

it creeps up on us when I look back and think how simple life was one TV two channels...kids walked two and from school..you went to the doctor twice a year if that.....everything was so much slower.. did you ever go window shopping on a Sat afternoon when the shops were mainly closed...I did it was an outing..lol...Sunday drive would mean looking at grand [we thought] homes.. not out of envy in awe I guess.....
it was a case of doing things together.that didnt cost much.

[Black Orchid]

I used to enjoy the "Sunday drive". The young still do it though and that's good. Both my sons often set out on a Sunday with their girlfriends and pick somewhere nice where they haven't been before and just go.

I get left at home which is good for me too lol.

[Valkie]

So you can all get fucked....

How about a hug instead?

That would be nice,,, My life is a little complicated at the moment, Not bad , Just a lot of things happening, Im in my new dweling, no insulation so a little cool witrh the sutherly that is blowing at the moment, work was great a couple of months back, but has turned to shit,, Not for me , but a couple of guys I have worked with for around 15 years are going to loose their jobs,And one I first worked with in the mid 80's

Look at it from a different perspective.
You now have opportunity to change
Your workmates may have been unhappy and now they have nothing holding them back from changing for the better.

Life is generally shite most of the time
It just make those few moments that are great, even better.

Never give up
Never let it beat you.

Strive for better, always
Prove you are stronger, better, tougher than life.