I don't think so.sprintcyclist wrote: ↑Sat Jan 25, 2020 10:59 pmValkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.
they take turns at being submissive.
BO is more intuitive than that.
Neither my wife or I are submissive.
Neither is more important, more deserving or more entitled.
We both give to each other with all our hearts.
My only regret in life is that I could not give her more.
But she states that she has everything she wants.
Buying her presents is a pain.
We enjoy the simple things in life.
Each other's company
Sitting together and watching a good movie.
Kayaking and fishing together.
As gross as it' sounds.
We go to sleep every night holding hands.
We wake every morning with a kiss.
We touch each other whenever we pass.
We can sit together for hours, not speaking, simply holding each other.
I have one fear, and it haunts me.
We are getting old.
One day she will die, and I will be left alone.
This is the only thing in this life that I fear more than DEATH.
But until that day, I will devote every day to her
My love
And no one will ever harm her without me making the last hours of their lives the most painful imaginable.