1. I have never encountered a Muslim who refused to shake hands and I have, I don't doubt, encountered more Muslims than you have, 4th.The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmHow do you know how many Muslims refuse to shake hands and how many don't? You assert that it's "a handful" yet provide no credible data that backs up your assertion. Speculation is worthless.brian ross wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:24 pmAnd yet you want to attack all Muslims because a handful refuse to shake hands, 4th.
Besides, my criticism is for (1) immigrants who expect their new country to change its customs to suit their own, and (2) nations that cave to such demands by amending their own long-held customs.
2. Nations change their customs and their attitudes when they feel a need or a desire to. It is a choice of their citizens as individuals. No custom is so sacrosanct that it cannot be changed.
Because it is what I am discussing, not what the OP is discussing, 4th. You want a discussion with me, you have to play by rules that I agree with. Oh, and the last time I checked, "Asylum Seekers" are legal migrants...The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmWhy should I suddenly allow you to change the subject to legal migrants when the OP clearly referred to "Europe's escalating migrant crisis" and made the point that "European countries are being swamped by immigrants/refugees/economic wanderers/asylum seekers" and "just look at the problem on the US southern border"?brian ross wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:24 pm
First, let us make one thing clear, I am talking about LEGAL migrants, not ILLEGAL migrants. You appear to want to discuss ILLEGAL immigrants, which I don't. Why? 'cause they have entered your country illegally. Legal migrants enter your country, well legally. There is a huge difference to how either is treated compared to the other, you realise? So, let us limit our discussion to LEGAL immigrants (and that BTW, includes Asylum Seekers who are legally allowed to enter and stay in the USA).
I wasn't aware we were playing football, 4th.Sorry, no goal post moving in the middle of the football game!
Where is that being asked, 4th? Sure it isn't your imagination playing a roll here? An imagination fueled by Islamophobia?The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmNow you're wandering off the trail. The subject isn't individuals being asked to change their customs; it's governments conforming to the customs of immigrant minorities.brian ross wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:24 pm
Well first up, it is not the whole society that is being asked to amend it's customs, it is individuals who are being asked. I would have suggest that out of common courtesy, when an individual offers a handshake and that is refused, say by a Japanese person (see it's not only Muslims who refuse handshakes), the person requested not to shake hands, does so without complaint. Otherwise, they are just being rude.
Again, a case of individuals asking that their customs be observed, nothing more. Nothing that actually suggests that there be an official government position undertaken on this. I'd suggest that the Muslim woman was perfectly correct to seek compensation after the job interview was ended because she refused to shake hands. Everybody is different, everybody has different customs. In my previous post I named two other nationalities that don't shake hands. Should they also be penalised? Should hand shaking become an official policy, 4th? Should be all people be forced to conform to your narrow minded viewpoint?The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmAgain, the OP referred to the Totaljobs website and the possibility of handshake customs in the UK changing to suit Muslims. And lo and behold, what should I find on the Totaljobs website? Why, this story about a "Swedish Muslim woman [who] has won compensation after her job interview with a translation company was swiftly ended when she declined to shake hands with a male interviewer." https://www.personneltoday.com/hr/job-interview/
As the story reads: "Earlier this week a Swedish labour court ruled that Semantix should pay her 40,000 krona (£3,420) in compensation ... The court heard that Alhajeh 'adheres to an interpretation of Islam that prohibits handshaking with the opposite sex unless it is a close member of the family.'”
Bingo ... a classic example of what the OP and I were talking about: A government court rules against the time-honored customs of a company (and nation) and in favor of the customs of an immigrant minority.
And by the way, if you're going to take Black Orchid to task for using the wrong word, be prepared to get similarly admonished when you use "it's customs" in an sentence that clearly requires the word "its." The sentence calls for a possessive in this case, not a contraction.
I have merely suggested a correction as yes, she did use the wrong word. I suppose I could just start calling you a "septic," and you'd be happy with that? Afterall, it is an Australian custom and you wouldn't like to change Australian customs on an Australian website, now would you?
American rules is played downunder, your saved!The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmYou're making my point for me. I would never expect Australia or its companies to change their customs to suit my preferences, no. So i wouldn't immediately expect the government to compensate me for the lack of American rules football games available to attend.brian ross wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:24 pm
If I come requesting mercy and I am accepted by a society, I expect that I will be allowed to, within reason, practice my own culture and my own religion. I do not expect to instantly, just add water, become an American. Would you expect to become an Australian overnight if you migrated to Australia or sought Asylum from the harsh el Presidente' Trump's regime?
No, I expect you'll just get upset when you don't have a Primary to vote in and that voting downunder is by Preference Voting, rather than First-past-the-post methods. Oh, and you can't own a gun for self-defence purposes nor can you have a semi-automatic longarm or a pump-action shotgun. I'm sure you'll be heart broken.
You will be able to shake hands though, except of course with the people from cultures which don't...
We aren't discussing illegal immigrants, 4e. Well, I'm not. I'm not sure what you're talking about...The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmWhat do you mean, "any OTHER American citizen"? Illegal migrants/asylum seekers are not citizens at all, so they don't even deserve to be considered second-class citizens. Do you not understand that a person who sneaks across a border does not automatically become a citizen of the country he sets foot in?brian ross wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:24 pm
As a legal migrant or asylum seeker, I am more like a neighbour than a "guest", 4th. As I would intend to become an American citizen ASAP, I would be accorded the same respect and the same rights as any other American citizen. Or are migrants/Asylum Seekers, considered second-class citizens in the USA?
The4thEstate wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2019 11:47 pmMy point was that immigrants have no right to expect their new country to change its time-honored customs just to accommodate their tastes.
I call B.S. -- as the story from Sweden demonstrates, some immigrants not only expect their new nation to conform to their customs; they expect to be compensated financially when a company in their new nation fails to do so. Silly YOU.brian ross wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2019 10:57 pmThe immigrants do not expect that in the slightest. What they expect is their customs to be honoured just as much as the established citizens', 4th. America is made up of many cultures, it is made up of many religions, it is made up of many "races" and ethnicities. America is a compromise between them all. You appear unwilling to compromise about shaking hands. Silly you.
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Sweden always leads the way, hey, 4e? How about say, Australia or Canada or Japan or China or India or Brazil or Argentina or New Zealand? Do they count more than lonely little Sweden?
Because they have no prefacing word to their classification, 4e. They are not Illegal Migrants or Illegal Asylum Seekers (indeed, you cannot have according to International Law an illegal Asylum Seeker). They are just ordinary, everyday, legal migrants or Asylum Seekers. You do understand the difference? Or has America abandoned the use of common English terms completely?The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmSpeaking of learning to read, where did you get the idea that migrants/asylum seekers were citizens?brian ross wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2019 10:57 pmImmaterial. Your country is still not "full", 4th. You really need to learn to read, don't you? There are hundreds of thousands of square miles of unoccupied land in the USA. Cities are emptying in some places. You don't think it would be a good idea to actually allow in citizens who want to settle there?
I wasn't aware that Migrants or Asylum seekers were a financial burden on anyone, 4e. Would you care to explain to us how Migrants or Asylum Seekers are a financial burden on the US Economy? I was under the impression that Migrants or Asylum Seekers came to a new country to settle and and to work there, supporting themselves, like all other long-term residents or Citizens (you do understand the term "long-term residents"?).The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmI couldn't care less how much open space there is in America. We already accept more than a million legal immigrants a year; the last thing we should feel obligated to do is take in more of them, especially when they're a financial burden to the citizens who actually live here.
Sure, I will. Of course you realise that el Presidente Trump's efforts are all short-term, rather than longer term growth, don't you, 4e?The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pmSure, let me know the next time you demonstrate an aptitude for implementing policies that raise America's GDP from the anemic 1.8 percent left by Obama to the robust 3.2 percent just measured in the first quarter of 2019.brian ross wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2019 10:57 pmI am sure I could do a better job than el Presidente' Trump. I suspect anybody could, if they wanted to...
Ah, so generalisations are allowed, are they, 4e?The4thEstate wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:08 pm"How many want to enter the U.S.?"brian ross wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2019 10:57 pmNumbers? Oh, it all boils down to numbers does it, 4th? How many are allowed in now? How many want to enter the US? Answer those questions and I will provide an answer to yours.
Millions, maybe billions.
"How many are allowed in now?"
Good grief, do you not know how to follow a simple link? I gave you one that shows how many immigrants were allowed into the U.S. per year. Here's the link again; if you still can't figure out what to do with it, see if your local zoo has a chimp who's not too busy to show you.
https://read.oecd-ilibrary.org/social-i ... -en#page24