Males abused by females

[Valkie]

Domestic violence is what happens when partners lose respect for each other.
It starts quite innocently, a harsh word here and snide remark tgere.

Then the partners start criticizing, insulting and the downward trend begins.

At first it's at home, then it gets public.
And the start to hate each other.

I have seen this in some of my friends.
But once it's goes public, it is almost guaranteed to be the end of the relationship.

In women
It gets nasty, insults, harping, refusing to communicate, affairs, generally all psychologically attacking the men.

In men
It siimply gets physical, overbearing, restriction of finances, stalking.

Two people get into a relationship because of love.
But without continual maintenance, that love rots and turns to hate.

Maintenance of love is easier for some than others.
It can be simply telling your partner you love them every day ( and meaning it)
It can be the occasional unexpected gift.
It can be the little things tgat just show them that you love and think of them.

Every time I Pass my wife I touch her, not intimately, just letting her know I know and love her, she in turn does the same.
Occasionally I bring her some flowers.
She buys me something I like.
We kiss before we part, even just going to the shops
We kiss when we get back.
We kiss before We go to sleep and even after 40 years, we still hold hands as we drop off to sleep.
We hold hands when we walk and even touch each other's hands while driving occasionally.

We respect each other, allow some "personal space" and have a "cunning kick" for any personal spending we want.
But the majority of our savings is in joint accounts.

Maintenance of love is just as important as maintenance of anything.
Not doing it results in breakdown and even worse problems.

Tell your partner you love them....every day
And do things tgat make them happy....every day
It works both ways
Renew you love every day, I tell you from experience, it make life so much better.

Oh, and by the way.
Maintenance of love with your children is just as important.
Make them know tgat they are the most important thing in your life.
Love is a resource without a limit.
Give freely and receive in abundance.