Male submission

[Valkie]

My wife and I discuss any serious issues cooperatively.

Often she says it's up to me, as I earn the money.

In nearly 40 years of marriage, we have never made a big decision without discussing it.

Sometimes she simply states, you should get it/ do it because you have worked hard and deserve it.

All our finances are in a joint account, but the cars and boat are in my name.
More convenient that way.
A good marriage should be a joint exercise..

[sprintcyclist]

My wife and I discuss any serious issues cooperatively.

Often she says it's up to me, as I earn the money.

In nearly 40 years of marriage, we have never made a big decision without discussing it.

Sometimes she simply states, you should get it/ do it because you have worked hard and deserve it.

All our finances are in a joint account, but the cars and boat are in my name.
More convenient that way.
A good marriage should be a joint exercise..

Sounds entirely sensible

[Black Orchid]

................ A Loving Dominant exercises control not by being overbearing or through the use of threats or by belittling another.
Moreso by working on a more subtle level, influencing actions, focus, thoughts and hopes to their willing submissive.
Granting 'rewards' where merited.
While a Dominant is both authoritarian and powerful, they are ever mindful of those around them, exercising care and consideration for their submissive ..................

They also swap the dominance for balance

[sprintcyclist]

................ A Loving Dominant exercises control not by being overbearing or through the use of threats or by belittling another.
Moreso by working on a more subtle level, influencing actions, focus, thoughts and hopes to their willing submissive.
Granting 'rewards' where merited.
While a Dominant is both authoritarian and powerful, they are ever mindful of those around them, exercising care and consideration for their submissive ..................

They also swap the dominance for balance

hahha, that'ld be too .........complex for me.

[Valkie]

................ A Loving Dominant exercises control not by being overbearing or through the use of threats or by belittling another.
Moreso by working on a more subtle level, influencing actions, focus, thoughts and hopes to their willing submissive.
Granting 'rewards' where merited.
While a Dominant is both authoritarian and powerful, they are ever mindful of those around them, exercising care and consideration for their submissive ..................

They also swap the dominance for balance

hahha, that'ld be too .........complex for me.

Far from it.
It is totally enjoyable.
Knowing your love has the same ideals as you
Knowing your love has your best interests at heart
Knowing you love her as much as she loves you.

Once you bot live to that ideal, it's so easy to let go and simply enjoy the journey together.
No blame, simply working together.
When things go wrong, and they sometimes do, working through it together and supporting each other.

Total trust, absolute certainty in true love.

It's the most wonderful life.

[sprintcyclist]

Valkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.

they take turns at being submissive.

[Nom De Plume]

Valkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.

they take turns at being submissive.

Thing is... lifestyle D&S does not entail switching.

[sprintcyclist]

Valkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.

they take turns at being submissive.

Thing is... lifestyle D&S does not entail switching.

Well, can't it just be a fun thing?


Sometimes I just need a hug.
On my butt, with a paddle.

[Black Orchid]

Valkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.

they take turns at being submissive.

Thing is... lifestyle D&S does not entail switching.

Perhaps not the extremes but not everything has to be extreme.

[The Reboot]

Valkie - I think Black Orchid means sometimes the dominant person will be the submissive one for a while.

they take turns at being submissive.

Thing is... lifestyle D&S does not entail switching.

Well, can't it just be a fun thing?


Sometimes I just need a hug.
On my butt, with a paddle.

Whoa Sprint didn't expect that from you!

Always the quiet ones